Women can be infuriating and exasperating but overall they are such wonderful little imps that I don’t know if I would change them if I could. Women are delightful to be with and so much fun when you get their clothes off. And, sometimes it can be as much fun trying to talk them out of their clothes.
Women are the most conniving creatures on the planet but even when you know they are lying, when they smile, bat their eyes, and do their sexy wiggles, they appear so innocent that you cannot help but love them. Just don’t expect women to act contrary to their nature and you will not be disappointed.
It is the nature of women to look out for their self-interest and at that they excel. Just as you don’t expect the cat to go against its nature and not get the canary if given the opportunity, you shouldn’t expect women to be different than their nature.
Your girlfriend probably believes it when she promises that she will never cheat. However, it is her nature to want to trade up so, she can’t help it, she is always looking. She may be loyal and true, but as soon as she is certain of someone better to replace you, she will pounce.
If you consider it from a natural selection viewpoint, women are not difficult to understand. Modern times are just a flash in the pan compared to the eons of the Stone Age so we still have our Stone Age. The winning strategy is to produce the most descendants. During the Stone Age for men the usual winning strategy was to impregnate the most women. For women, the winning strategy was to find a good provider for her and her children and when ovulating to have sneaky sex to select the best genes. Women that did not select the best genes for their eggs if given the opportunity when the risk was low are not our ancestors.
Women excel at sneaky sex but throughout our evolutionary history there was a trade off. If successful, she increased the probability of having a child with greater, strength, intelligence, and fecundity. However, the risk was that, if discovered, her mate would punish her, leave her, or possibly kill her and/or her child.
Therefore, like so often in nature, there is a balance. For example, in a world of honest people, con men thrive. However, when their numbers are too high, people learn not to be so trusting, therefore, the honest people thrive.
By the same token, in a world where most women cheat and cheat often, men learn not to trust so their risk of being caught and killed or severely punished great increased and gives the advantage to women that don’t cheat. If very few women cheat, men are naturally trustful and cheaters thrive.
As a result most wives and girlfriend may cheat, but usually not often. Typically it requires that she is at or near evaluation, the opportunity for sneaky sex with a superior male is there, and the risk is low. For example, the husband is out of town, she meet this super good looking guy when she is ovulation, and he pushes the right buttons, it is almost a certainly that she will be compelled to have sex. However, all those conditions may never occur.
Based on limited studies, approximately ten percent of husbands are not the biological father of children they believe they sired. The women most likely to cheat are those with the most to gain. Beautiful women marry the top men therefore, for cheating offers little advantage. And, contrary to popular belief, they cheat less.
If, in the unlikely event, you discover that your wife or girlfriend cheated, unless the cheating is excessive, don’t be upset because she couldn’t help it; she was just following her nature. It doesn’t make much sense to replace her when her replacement will be just like her.
The secret of women is to love them for being wonderful little imps, to take what they have to offer, and to not expect more. So what, if they are devious, lying, little cheats. They are way ahead of whatever comes in second.
If, however, the above seems discouraging, don't let it be because it is based on my reading of scientific studies of the norm. There is a lot of variability in humans and many women (probably about 25 percent) do not fit the norm. These women seldom lie, except for white lies to protect someone's feelings, they never cheat and would not cheat, and are not even tempted to cheat.
Therefore, if that is important to you, look for the one in four that will always be faithful. Since they are more in demand, you may need to give up a little in looks, but they are not that hard to find.